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About Domestic Abuse

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Domestic abuse is much more common than people think; one in four women and one in six men will experience it at some point in their lives.

 

It can happen to anyone, in all types of relationships, regardless of race, ethnic or religious group, class, disability, sexuality, lifestyle, nationality or age. 

 

It's rarely a one-off occurence, but usually a pattern of abusive and controlling behaviour.

 

Definition

 

There are sometimes varying definitions of what domestic abuse is.  Women's Aid give the following definition:


 ...physical, psychological, sexual or financial violence that takes place within an intimate or family-type relationship and forms a pattern of coercive and controlling behaviour.  This can include forced marriage and so-called 'honour crimes'. Domestic violence may include a range of abusive behaviours, not all of which are in themselves inherently 'violent'.

 

 

What is domestic abuse

 

Domestic abuse can take many different forms, be it physical, sexual, emotional or financial – or indeed a combination of all four. It is a pattern of controlling and abusive behaviours, rarely a one-off event. Crimes committed in the name of 'honour', forced marriage and female genital mutiliation can also be considered domestic abuse.

 

Victims may be made to feel responsible and guilty for the abuse, and it can go on for years, often increasing in frequency and severity. Sometimes it only ends when one person kills the other.

 

What you can do

 

If you, or someone you know, is in an abusive relationship there are three steps you can take:

 

  • Recognise it is happening

  • Accept that you (or the person you know) are not to blame

  • Seek help and support

 

The Somerset Domestic Abuse Free Fone Support (DAFFS) line can be contacted for advice and support by telephoning 0800 69 49 999 anytime.

 

 


 

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